
Ufuna amahlaya mayelana nokuguga, mfundi othandekayo? Nokho, namuhla ngingakunikeza angu-32 awo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umncane noma umdala, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuhlobana nezimbalwa zazo.
Ngithemba ukuthi uzozijabulela zonke, futhi ngithemba ukuthi zizokwenza umomotheke. Impela, zonke zingenze ngimomotheke.
Futhi khumbula lokhu: sonke siyaguga, kodwa ukuguga kuyisimo sengqondo, okungaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Akudingeki uvumele indoda noma isalukazi singene.
Noma kunjalo, thatha isikhashana ukuzifunda zonke bese ukudlulisa.


Amahlaya mayelana nokuguga:
Lapho ngikhula, kusheshe kuhlwe.
Abesifazane abavamile ukuvuma iminyaka yabo; amadoda awavamile ukuwenza.
Ngimdala kangangokuthi imoto yami yokuqala kwakuyinqola emboziwe.
Kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi bonke abalingana nami babonakale bebadala kunami?
Ngikule minyaka lapho engingakwazi khona ukuhambisana nazo zonke izinto engizizondayo.
Indoda ehlakaniphile ikhumbula usuku lokuzalwa lowesifazane kodwa ayilikhumbuli iminyaka yakhe.
Ngimdala kakhulu, ngiyakhumbula ukuthi ama-emoji ayebizwa ngokuthi ama-hieroglyphics.
Ukulala njalo kuzovimbela ukuguga, ikakhulukazi uma kuthathwe ngenkathi ushayela.
Ukuguga ngendlela ehloniphekile kuyindlela enesizotha yokuthi kancane kancane ubukeka kabi.
Uyazi ukuthi usukhulile uma ukuyodla ngaphandle kusho ukubamba isidlo sasekuseni esikhethekile.
Sasihlupheka kakhulu sisakhula sasikwazi ukulalela uSimon noma uGarfunkel kuphela.
Uyazi ukuthi usumdala uma abantu befona ngo-9 ebusuku bese bebuza, "Ngabe ngikuvusa?"
Ngikholelwa ekuthembekeni. Ngakho, lapho ngifika eminyakeni ethile, nganquma ukunamathela kukho.
Umkami uyize, angamane akhokhe inani eliphelele kunokuba avume ukuthi uyisakhamuzi esikhulu.
Ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi ngiguga njengewayini elimnandi, kodwa kimi, lifana nobhanana omuhle.
Ngiyabathanda abantu besifazane abadala ngoba sebejwayele ukuphoxeka empilweni, ngakho bangilungele.

Uma usukhulile, ukuba nenhlanhla kuwukungena ekamelweni futhi ukhumbula kahle ukuthi kungani ulapho.
Ukuguga yilapho ofunda nabo abadala sebempunga, beshwabene, futhi benempandla kangangokuthi abasakwazi.
Uma kuwusuku lwakho lokuzalwa namuhla, kufanele uzibongele. Ikakhulukazi uma usakwazi ukuyikhumbula.
Lapho ngikhula, amahlelo engeziwe enza umqondo ophelele. Uyazi ukuthi kunzima kangakanani ukwenza abangane usumdala?
Uyazi ukuthi uyaguga uma unamakhandlela amaningi ekhekheni lakho kunabangane ephathini lakho lokuzalwa.
Ikhono losomaqhinga yikhono lokutshela umuntu ukuthi aye esihogweni ngendlela yokuthi alangazelele uhambo.
Ukuguga yilapho ubhekene nezilingo ezimbili bese ukhetha leyo ezokubuyisela ekhaya ngehora lesishiyagalolunye.
Umzuzu ongcono kakhulu wempilo yowesifazane akazali, wukubona isitha esidala nokubona ukuthi ukhuluphele futhi mubi kangakanani manje.
Lapho usemncane, ubanga umsindo nje uzijabulisa. Uma usumdala, ubanga umsindo owengeziwe ngokugoba nje.
Ngangifuna ukubukeka ngivelele ekugugeni kwami, ngakho ngaba nentshebe. Kuvela ukuthi isitatimende engisenzayo sifana nokuthi, “Ngicela isaphulelo, ngingomdala!”
Lapho ngisengumfana, nganginesifo esasidinga ukuba ngidle ukungcola kathathu ngosuku ukuze ngiphile. Ngenhlanhla umfowethu omdala wangitshela ngakho.
Lapho ngisemncane ngenza izinto eziwubuwula ngoba ngangingazi kangcono. Manje sengazi kangcono, ngisazenza izinto eziwubuwula, kodwa angikwazi ukuzibamba.
Ngizizwa ngingcono ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho udokotela wami ethi okuthile okuvamile ngeminyaka yami, kodwa ngibe sengikhumbula ukuthi ukufa kuyoba yinto evamile kuntanga yami ngesinye isikhathi.
Sengifinyelele inkathi lapho ukuzibuka esibukweni kufana nokubheka izindaba. Ngiyazi ukuthi kuzoba nentuthuko entsha engingeke ngiyithande.
Lapho usemncane, ukuphoxeka ukukhohlwa ukuvala iziphu yempukane yakho. Uma usumdala, ukuphoxeka ukukhohlwa ukuqaqa impukane yakho.
Njengoba ngikhula futhi ngikhumbula bonke abantu engilahlekelwe endleleni, ngicabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe umsebenzi wokuba umqondisi wezivakashi wawungewona ongifanele.


Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:
Mfundi othandekayo, ingabe lamahlaya amayelana nokuguga akwenza wamamatheka? Ngethemba kanjalo.
Mhlawumbe unomuzwa wokuthi usengasebenzisa ukuhleka?
Uma kunjalo. bese uchofoza izixhumanisi ezingezansi. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzothola ukumamatheka okuningi okuzokujabulisa.
Futhi uma ukujabulele lokho okufunde namuhla, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangane bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.
Kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukudlulisa ukumamatheka. Futhi uzobe usiza ibhulogi enesifiso sokufinyelela izethameli eziningi.
Ngiyabonga ngokweseka kwakho.


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