Amahlaya angama-32 anobuhlakani, anomugqa owodwa mayelana nokuguga ukuze akwenze umamatheke

Ufuna amahlaya mayelana nokuguga, mfundi othandekayo? Nokho, namuhla ngingakunikeza angu-32 awo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umncane noma umdala, ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuhlobana nezimbalwa zazo.

Ngithemba ukuthi uzozijabulela zonke, futhi ngithemba ukuthi zizokwenza umomotheke. Impela, zonke zingenze ngimomotheke.

Futhi khumbula lokhu: sonke siyaguga, kodwa ukuguga kuyisimo sengqondo, okungaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Akudingeki uvumele indoda noma isalukazi singene.

Noma kunjalo, thatha isikhashana ukuzifunda zonke bese ukudlulisa.

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Amahlaya mayelana nokuguga:

UPhil Sutton

Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:

Mfundi othandekayo, ingabe lamahlaya amayelana nokuguga akwenza wamamatheka? Ngethemba kanjalo.

Mhlawumbe unomuzwa wokuthi usengasebenzisa ukuhleka?

Uma kunjalo. bese uchofoza izixhumanisi ezingezansi. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzothola ukumamatheka okuningi okuzokujabulisa.

Futhi uma ukujabulele lokho okufunde namuhla, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangane bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.

Kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukudlulisa ukumamatheka. Futhi uzobe usiza ibhulogi enesifiso sokufinyelela izethameli eziningi.

Ngiyabonga ngokweseka kwakho.

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Izindatshana ongazijabulela:

5 izindaba ezihlekisayo ezizokhanyisa usuku lwakho kancane

Uma ufuna amahlaya ahlekisayo ngendlela yezindaba ezihlekisayo, ngizokuphathela ezinhlanu ezinhle namuhla, mfundi othandekayo.

Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzowajabulela wonke.

Ngakho-ke thola ikhofi, uphumule, futhi uthathe ikhefu elingekho emthethweni ezingcindezini zosuku ukuze uzijabulele zonke.

Futhi sicela ukhululeke ukuwadlulisela.

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Izindaba Ezihlekisayo:

1. Fly Southwest:

UJohnny omncane wayelunguze ngefasitela lendiza, ejabulela okuhlangenwe nakho kokundiza kwakhe kokuqala.

Ejulile ecabanga, waphendukela kunina wabuza, “ Uma izinja ezinkulu zinezinja ezincane kanti amakati amakhulu anezinja ezincane, kungani izindiza ezinkulu zingenazo izindiza ezincane?

Nokho, unina wayekhathazekile kancane ngalo mbuzo, futhi wayenenkinga yokucabanga ngempendulo, ngakho wathi, “ Johnny, kungani ungabuzi isisebenzi sendiza?

UJohnny omncane wayengeyena umntwana ongenakho ukuzethemba, ngakho wahamba ngenhlonipho wathi kumuntu osebenza endizeni, “ Uxolo, mama, uma izinja ezinkulu zinezinja ezincane kanti amakati amakhulu anezinja ezincane, kungani izindiza ezinkulu zingenazo izindiza ezincane?

Isisebenzi sendiza sasikuzwile konke ngaphambili, vele, kodwa samomotheka kamnandi kuJohnny sabe sesibuza, “ Ingabe umama wakho ukutshelile ukuthi ungibuze lokho?

UJohnny omncane wabuyisa ukumamatheka kwakhe wathi, “ Yebo, mama, ukwenzile .”

Kulungile ,” kusho isisebenzi sendiza, “ ungatshela umama wakho ukuthi azikho izindiza ezincane ngoba iSouthwest ihlala iphuma ngesikhathi. Ungacela umama wakho ukuthi akuchazele lokho.

2. Iminikelo yokuzithandela:

UJim wayehamba ngemoto esuka ehhovisi ngolunye usuku lapho ezithola evaleleke esiminyaminya ngoba zonke izimoto ezaziphambi kwakhe zazime ngokuphelele emgwaqeni onguthelawayeka. Kwakungekho lutho olwalunyakaza.

Kusenjalo, uJim wabona iphoyisa lihamba emgqeni wezimoto liza emotweni engaphambili.

Ngakho uJim waphuma emotweni yakhe wabuza iphoyisa ukuthi kungani kunenkinga.

Mnumzane, ngiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokuphazamiseka, kodwa imeya yedolobha ihlezi phakathi nomgwaqo ngaphambili, futhi isesimweni sokukhungatheka okukhulu ,” kusho iphoyisa.

Uthi ucwile ezikweletini, futhi usongela ngokuzithela ngophethiloli emzimbeni wakhe bese ezishisa ,” kusho iphoyisa.

Pho wenzani? ” kubuza uJim.

Ngihamba ngemoto ngicela iminikelo ,” kuphendula iphoyisa.

Futhi uqoqe malini kuze kube manje? ” kubuza uJim.

Kulungile, mnumzane ,” kusho iphoyisa, “ sisanda kuqala nje, kodwa abashayeli abasilandelayo basinike amalitha ayishumi nanhlanu kuze kube manje, kanti abanye abashayeli basaqhubeka nokuhudula njengoba sikhuluma.

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3. Ingxabano:

UDokotela O'Riley nomkakhe bayaphikisana etafuleni lesidlo sasekuseni.

Ingxabano ikhula kancane kancane njengoba beqala ukuqhululana ngamabhomu, bezama ukwedlula lokho okushiwo omunye.

Ekugcineni, uDokotela u-O'Riley uthukuthele kakhulu, uyamemeza, “ Nawe awulungile embhedeni ,” ngaphambi kokuba aphume endlini ethukuthele.

Ngesikhathi efika ekuhlinzweni kwakhe, uDokotela O'Riley useyehlile, futhi uqala ukuzizwa enecala ngenkulumo yakhe yokuhlukana.

Ngakho, ufonela umkakhe ukuze axolise.

Akukho mpendulo. Ngakho-ke, uzama ukushayela ucingo izikhathi eziningana phakathi nehora elilandelayo. Ekugcineni, ucingo lwakhe luyaphendulwa ngemva kokukhala kaningi, futhi ngalesi sikhathi, udokotela uthukuthele futhi uyamemeza, “ Yini ekuthathe isikhathi eside kangaka ukuphendula ucingo?

Bengilele ,” kuphendula umkakhe.

Ubulele? ” kusho udokotela ngokumangala. “ Ubuleleleni?

Uma kufanele wazi ,” kusho umkakhe, “ bengithola omunye umbono!

4. Ukufuna incazelo:

ILone Ranger kanye nozakwabo othembekile, uTonto, babekanise ehlane.

Kwase kuhambe usuku besendleleni, bathi sebegxumeke itende balala bobabili.

Ngemva kwamahora, uTonto uvusa iLone Ranger athi, “ Kemo Sabe, bheka esibhakabhakeni. Ubonani?

I-Lone Ranger iyaphendula, “ Ngibona izigidi zezinkanyezi, Tonto. Kungani?

Lokho kukutshelani, Kemo Sabe? ” kubuza uTonto.

I-Lone Ranger icabanga ngalo mbuzo okwesikhashana bese ithi, “ Ingitshela ukuthi indawo yonke inezigidi zemithala kanye nezigidigidi zamaplanethi. Ithi simane nje singamachashaza endaweni yonke enkulu. Futhi ithi cishe sekusele ihora leshumi nanhlanu ekuseni. Isibhakabhaka esicwebezelayo siphinde sisikisele ukuthi sizojabulela usuku oluhle kamuva. Ikutshelani, Tonto?

Kemo Sabe, uyisiwula kunenja yasendle,” kuphendula uTonto. “ Kungitshela ukuthi othile webe itende lethu.

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5. Ukushona kukaBubba kabuhlungu:

Ngokudabukisayo, uBubba wabulawa ezimeni ezisolisayo emlilweni omubi, esha kanzima okwamshiya engabonakali nhlobo.

Ukuze athole isidumbu ngokusemthethweni, umhloli wezokwelapha waseLos Angeles County wabiza abangane ababili bakaBubba abaseduze, uJim-Bob noJoe-Bob.

Umhloli wezokwelapha wakhombisa uJim-Bob isidumbu, waphendula ngokuphefumula kanzima wabe esethi, “ Hawu, useshile kakhulu. Ungamgoqa, mnumzane?

Ngakho-ke umhloli wezokwelapha wagingqa isidumbu, uJim-Bob waphendula ngokushesha, ethi, “ Cha, mnumzane, akuyena uBubba lowo .”

Uqinisekile? ” kusho umhloli wezokwelapha.

Yebo, mnumzane, ngiyaqiniseka, ” kuphendula uJim-Bob, “ kodwa ungabuza uJoe-Bob uma uthanda.

Ngakho uJoe-Bob wangeniswa emakhazeni wakhonjiswa isidumbu.

Yebo ,” kusho uJoe-Bob, “ useshile kakhulu. Ungamgingqa, mnumzane?

Nakuba edidekile ukuphinda aphinde athole lesi sicelo, umhloli wezokwelapha wasibophezela futhi wasigingqa isidumbu.

UJoe-Bob wama isikhashana wabe esethi, “ Cha, mnumzane, akuyena uBubba lowo .”

Lokhu kuguquka kwezenzakalo kwamdida umhloli wezokwelapha. Ngakho wabuza, “ Ungabona kanjani ukuthi akuyena uBubba ngokumgingqa nje?

Kulungile, mnumzane ,” kusho uJoe-Bob, “ uBubba wayenezigebengu ezimbili .”

Usho ukuthini, wayenezimpumputhe ezimbili? ” kubuza udokotela.

Yebo, mnumzane, wonke umuntu wayekwazi lokho lapha ,” kusho uJoe-Bob.

" Wazi kanjani? " kubuza umhloli wezokwelapha.

UJoe-Bob waphendula wathi, “ Ngoba njalo lapho sobathathu sihamba ndawonye eMain Street, wawuzwa abantu bethi, ‘Nangu uBubba efika nezimpumputhe ezimbili’.

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Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe:

Ngakho-ke mfundi othandekayo, ingabe lokhu okuthunyelwe bekuhlekisa futhi kuwufanele imizuzu embalwa yesikhathi sakho?

Uma noma iyiphi yalezi zindaba ezihlekisayo ikwenze wamamatheka, sicela wabelane ngazo nabangani bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina. Kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukudlulisa ukumamatheka.

Beka ukumamatheka ebusweni bomunye umuntu, futhi wenze isenzo sakho esihle sosuku. Ngakho qhubeka, yabelana manje.

Bese mhlawumbe ungathanda ukuhleka okwengeziwe? Bese uchofoza izixhumanisi ezingezansi.

Ngiyabonga.

Izindatshana ongazijabulela:

Izingcaphuno ezingama-23 ezigxile kakhulu zokukusiza uphishekele impumelelo

Uma ungazi kahle ukuthi ufunani, awusoze wakuthola. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi okuningi kusobala kuwe ngokwefilosofi, mfundi othandekayo. Nokho, ungazi kanjani ukuthi yini oyifunayo?

Hhayi-ke, uma kunesidingo, qhubeka uzama izinto uze uthole okuthile okujabulela ngempela futhi ophumelela kukho.

Futhi uma usuthole into oyithandayo, hlala ugxile kuyo futhi ukuthathe ufike lapho ongakwazi ukuya khona.

Yileyo ndlela yokuthola impumelelo yangempela.

Nazi izingcaphuno ezinhle ezingu-23 ezigxile kakhulu ezingakusiza endleleni yakho.

hlala-egxile-izicaphuno
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Hlala ugxile emazwini akhe (1-7):

  1. Hlala ugxile kumishini. ~UNaveen Jain
  2. Hlala ugxilile, landela amaphupho akho futhi uqhubeke uphokophele ezinhlosweni zakho. ~LL Cool J
  3. Yazi okufunayo, futhi ugxile endleleni ozokuthola ngayo. Futhi ungalokothi, ungalokothi uyeke. ~Roy Sutton
  4. Uma sesamukele imingcele yethu, sidlulela ngale kwayo. ~Albert Einstein
  5. Khomba phezulu; hlala ugxile. ~UBrandon Adams
  6. Ngihlale ngifuna ukuhlala ngigxile kulokho engiyikho, njengoba ngithola ukuthi ngingubani. ~Alicia Keys
  7. Hlala ugxile emsebenzini wakho, hlala ugxilile ekuphishekeleni kwakho okuhle, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi wenza okufanele. ~UMark Esper
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Hlala ugxile emazwini akhe (8-15):

  1. Hlala ngokweqiniso kuwena, kodwa uhlale uvulekele ukufunda. Sebenza ngokuzikhandla futhi ungalokothi ulahle amaphupho akho, noma kungekho omunye umuntu okholelwa ukuthi angafezeka ngaphandle kwakho. Lawa akuwona ama-cliches, kodwa amathuluzi wangempela owadingayo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenzani empilweni ukuze uhlale ugxile endleleni yakho. ~Phillip Sweet
  2. Hlala ugxilile, kholelwa ukuthi ungafinyelela ezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu, uzungeze nabanye abakholelwa kuwe, futhi ungaduki emgomweni wakho. ~UZach Ertz
  3. Abantu abaphumelelayo balondoloza ukugxila okuhle ekuphileni kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani eduze kwabo. Bahlala begxile empumelelweni yabo yesikhathi esidlule kunokwehluleka kwabo okwedlule, futhi ezinyathelweni zesinyathelo esilandelayo, okudingeka bazithathe ukuze babasondeze ekugcwalisekeni kwemigomo yabo kunazo zonke ezinye iziphazamiso ezilethwa ukuphila kubo. ~Jack Canfield
  4. Umgwaqo omude, ngakho-ke sizama nje ukuhlala sigxilile futhi sizinzile futhi siqhubeke siya phambili. ~USturgill Simpson
  5. Ukhiye wami wokubhekana nengcindezi ulula: vele uhlale upholile futhi uhlale ugxile. ~Ashton Eaton
  6. Kufanele uhlale ugxile futhi uqine ngokwengqondo. Yilokho engikufundile ngempela: zonke izinsuku ziwukugaya, futhi kufanele uhambe kanzima. ~Chris Gronkowski
  7. Hlala unomqondo ovulekile; hlala ugxile. Qeqesha kanzima futhi uqeqeshe ngobuhlakani. Kimina, uma ngikhula, ngihlakaniphe kakhulu okufanele ngiziqeqeshe ngoba isikhathi sokululama side. Sebenza kukho konke: yiba isilwi esiphelele; ungabi muhle entweni eyodwa; ube muhle kukho konke. ~Brock Lesnar
  8. Njengoba ngikhula, ngihlala ngigxile kakhulu ekwamukeleni kwami ​​nabanye futhi ngikhetha ububele kunokwahlulela kanye nelukuluku kunokwesaba. ~U-Tracee u-Ellis Ross
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Hlala ugxile emazwini akhe (16-23):

  1. Iseluleko esingcono kakhulu somsebenzi engisitholile wukuhlala ngigxilile futhi ngiqhubekele phambili. ~I-Tyga
  2. Umgomo wami uwukuphela kokugxila emsebenzini wami wezandla futhi ngiqinisekise ukuthi impilo yami ibukhali ngendlela engaba yingozi ngayo ukuhlasela noma yimuphi umlingisi enginikezwa wona. ~UMichael K. Williams
  3. Kufanele ngiqinisekise ukuthi ngihlala ngigxilile, ngiba nesifiso esifanayo ebengihlale nginaso, futhi ngisebenze kanzima; lokho kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo. ~Romelu Lukaku
  4. Engikufundile ukuthi uma uhlala ugxile, ukholwa, futhi empeleni uhambe uhambo, noma yini ingenzeka. ~Craig David
  5. Ngithanda ukuhlala ngimatasa, ngithanda ukuhlala ngigxilile, futhi ngithanda ukuhlala nginobuchule. Ngaphandle kokudala, ngabe ngifile. ~UJeremy Renner
  6. Ukuqala ibhizinisi nokwakha umkhiqizo akuyona into efiphele inhliziyo. Kufanele ufunde ukungavumeli ukudumazeka okuncane kukwehlise futhi uhlale ugxile esithombeni esikhulu. ~UGillian Tans
  7. Kufanele uhlale okwamanje. Hlala ugxilile. Yazi ukuthi uzokwenzani. ~UDave Martinez
  8. Mayelana nokwethuka kwasesiteji, akupheli. Uma ngilinde emaphikweni ukuze ngiqhubeke, kuba nobuhlungu njalo, kodwa ngihlala ngigxilile, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi uma ngingena esiteji, kuzolunga; Ngizoba sebhamuzeni lami elincane elinenjabulo. ~Britt ekland

Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:

Ngakho-ke, mfundi othandekayo, ingabe lokhu okuthunyelwe bekukudinga isikhathi sakho esincane?

Uma bekunjalo, sicela wabelane ngakho nabangani bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.

Uma ungabelana ngakho manje, ngizohlala ngibonga kakhulu. Uzobe usiza i-blogger ekhuthele ukuthi ifinyelele izethameli eziningi.

Ngiyabonga ukwesekwa kwakho mfundi othandekayo.

Izindatshana ongazijabulela:

33 izingcaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma ukuze ucabange

Uma ufuna izingcaphuno ezithile zenkululeko yokukhuluma, ngikhethe ezinye ezishukumisa ingqondo futhi ezithakazelisayo.

Siphila enkathini evame ukungababekezeleli labo abaveza imibono nemibono ephikisana nokuhlakanipha okwamukelwe kwanamuhla.

Kodwa-ke, inkululeko yokukhuluma ibalulekile kithi sonke uma sikholelwa entandweni yeningi kanye nelungelo lomuntu ngamunye lokumemezela imibono engeke ibe yinzuzo yeningi.

Inkululeko yokukhuluma iyigugu, futhi kufanele siyigade sengathi izimpilo zethu zincike kuyo ngoba ngelinye ilanga zingase zivele.

Ngakho-ke thatha isikhashana ucabange lezi zicaphuno, futhi sicela ukhululeke ukuzidlulisela.

INKULULEKO YOKUKHULUMA
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Izingcaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma (1-10):

  1. Inkululeko yokukhuluma ihlanganisa nelungelo lokungakhulumi. ~UJimmy Wales
  2. Kumele umele inkululeko yokukhuluma emigwaqweni. ~UMary Harris Jones
  3. Ngezingxoxo eziqotho nenkululeko yokukhuluma, amazwi abantu azwakale. ~Ron Johnson
  4. Angicabangi ukuthi kufanele siphucwe ilungelo lokukhuluma ngokukhululeka. ~U-Loretta Swit
  5. Ngiyisigangi sokukhuluma ngokukhululeka. Angikuthandi ukucwaninga; Angicabangi nje ukuthi kuyinto enhle. ~UFred Wilson
  6. Uyazi, wonke umuntu ukholelwa enkulumweni ekhululekile uze uqale ukubabuza ngakho. ~ULarry flynt
  7. Inkulumo ekhululekile ayiyona nje enye inzuzo. Kuyisisekelo sempucuko yaseNtshonalanga. ~UJordani Peterson
  8. Ngicabanga, ngokubonga okungapheli, ukuthi abesifazane abasha banamuhla abazi futhi abakwazi nanini ukwazi ukuthi ilungelo labo lokukhuluma ngokukhululeka nokukhuluma nhlobo emphakathini selizuziwe. ~Lucy Stone
  9. Amahlaya asukumayo, namahlaya ngokujwayelekile, ayindlela yokugcina yokukhuluma ngokukhululeka ngoba uthola ukubhoboza kuwo wonke amagwebu okuzenzisa osopolitiki nosolwazi nopapa nabazenzisi bazama ukuntanta phezu kwamakhanda ethu. ~UDenis Leary
  10. Ukukhuluma ngokukhululeka kuyisisekelo samalungelo abantu, umsuka wobuntu, nomama weqiniso. Ukubulala inkululeko yokukhuluma kuwukweyisa amalungelo abantu, ukucindezela imvelo yomuntu nokucindezela iqiniso. ~Liu Xiaobo
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Izingcaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma (11-20):

  1. Inkululeko yokukhuluma iyinsika yawo wonke amalungelo esinawo. ~Mark Thomas
  2. Osopolitiki bakholelwa enkululekweni yokukhuluma kuze kube yinkinga kubona. ~Tom Irwell
  3. Ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngokukhululeka akukho ukusesha iqiniso okungenzeka… akukho ukutholakala kweqiniso okuwusizo. ~UCharles Bradlaugh
  4. Inkulumo ekhululekile ihloselwe ukuvikela inkulumo engathandeki. Inkulumo edumile, ngokwencazelo, ayidingi ukuvikelwa. ~Neal Boortz
  5. Ukucindezela inkululeko yokukhuluma kuyiphutha eliphindwe kabili. Kwephula amalungelo ozwayo kanye nalawo okhulumayo. ~Frederick Douglass
  6. Inkululeko yokukhuluma ingenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kimina, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi kuyadida uma kukhulunywa ngecala. Ngoba kokukodwa, ngenxa yokuthi unelungelo lokusho noma yini, akusho ukuthi kufanele ukhulume. ~Ricky Gervais
  7. Abasunguli boMthethosisekelo babazi ukuthi inkulumo ekhululekile ingumngane woguquko nenguquko. Kodwa futhi babazi ukuthi kuhlale kuyisitha esibulala kakhulu sobushiqela. ~Hugo Black
  8. Ama-Liberals akufanele ayeke isibopho sokuvikela inkulumo yamahhala emakhempasi ekolishi kuma-conservatives. Phela, ngaphandle kokukhuluma ngokukhululeka, yini i-liberalism? ~Bari Weiss
  9. Awukwazi ukuvele unyundele umuntu, umngcolise igama noma uqambe amanga ngaye. Awukwazi ukugqugquzela abantu ebugebengwini. Kukhona zonke izinhlobo zemikhawulo enengqondo ekukhulumeni ngokukhululeka esezivele zibhalwe ohlelweni lwemithetho yaseBrithani. ~UJordani Peterson
  10. Kuyindida ukuthi wonke umashiqela ugibele izintambo zokukhuluma ngokukhululeka. Ngokushesha lapho ethola amandla, umashiqela ngamunye wacindezela yonke inkulumo ekhululekile ngaphandle kweyakhe. ~UHerbert Hoover
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Izingcaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma (21-27):

  1. Ukwesaba ukulimala okubi kukodwa akukwazi ukuthethelela ukucindezelwa kwenkululeko yokukhuluma nokuhlangana. Amadoda ayesaba abathakathi futhi ashise abafazi. Kungumsebenzi wenkulumo ukukhulula amadoda ebugqilini bokwesaba okungenangqondo. ~Louis D. Brandeis
  2. Amalungelo okukhuluma mahhala asho ukuthi izikhulu zikahulumeni ziyavinjwa ukuthi zenze uhlu lwemibono yezepolitiki egunyaziwe nengagunyazwayo bese zisebenzisa amandla ombuso ukuphoqelela lokho okuthandwayo. ~Glenn Greenwald
  3. Inkululeko yokukhuluma iyilungelo lokutshela abantu lokho abangafuni ukukuzwa. Ilungelo lokuveza imibono abanye abangase bangavumelani nayo. Uma sikholelwa enkululekweni yokukhuluma, lelo lungelo kufanele lihlonishwe. ~Roy Sutton
  4. Ku-inthanethi, abantu abanebala lesikhumba elihlukene, izizwe, amasiko nezilimi kufanele babe nelungelo elilinganayo lokubamba iqhaza, ukukhuluma ngokukhululeka kanye nokuthuthuka. Kufanele silahle ubandlululo, sihloniphe ukungezwani, futhi sibekezelelane futhi sivuleleke. ~Lu wei
  5. Asinayo imithetho yokuhlambalaza kulezi zinsuku kodwa ngaleyo nkululeko iza nomthwalo okufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi uhambele ukusetshenziswa kwenkululeko yokukhuluma: iqiniso, inhlonipho kanye nokuqwashisa ngomthelela. Eyokugcina kulawa enganakiwe ngamahlaya amaningi esimanje. ~U-Ann Widdecombe
  6. I-Twitter iwuhlobo lwenkulumo yamahhala, futhi ngiyikho konke lokho. Kepha uma u-Cee Lo Green, i-maverick yohlobo oluthile, engakwazi ukungena ku-Twitter futhi asho into exakile noma ecasulayo, pho-ke liyini iphuzu lonke le-Twitter? ~CeeLo Okuluhlaza
  7. Akekho kithi okholelwa elungelweni elingancishiwe lenkululeko yokukhuluma. Sonke siyavuma ukuthi kuhlale kunemigqa okuthi, ngezinhloso zomthetho nokuhleleka, kungeke kweqedwe; noma ngezinjongo zokunambitheka kanye nenhlonipho, akufanele kweqe. Siyehluka kuphela ngokuthi leyo migqa kufanele idwetshwe kuphi. ~UMehdi Hasan
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Izingcaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma (27-33):

  1. Ukuthi nginelungelo lokuziveza ngokukhululekile ngazo zonke izikhathi kuzo zonke izimo kuhlanganisa umqondo wokuthi inkulumo ekhululekile 'iyilungelo lomuntu ngamunye' analo umuntu ngamunye, futhi, ngenxa yalokho, iphakamisa izithakazelo zomphakathi noma zeqembu, kuhlanganise nomakhelwane wami. . ~UTom uyama
  2. Enye yezinkinga ekuvikeleni inkulumo ekhululekile ukuthi ngokuvamile kufanele uvikele abantu obathola benonya futhi bengajabulisi futhi bayanengeka. ~Salman Rushdie
  3. Awukwazi ukuba nenyuvesi ngaphandle kokuba nenkululeko yokukhuluma, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kusenza singakhululeki kakhulu. Uma abafundi bengeke bezwe imibono eyimpikiswano emakhempasi ekolishi, ngeke bayizwe eMelika. Ngikholwa ukuthi kuyingxenye yemfundo yabo. ~Donna Shalala
  4. Iqiniso lokuthi sivikelekile ngaphansi koMthethosisekelo ekusebenziseni ilungelo lokukhuluma ngokukhululeka, kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kufanele uvele kwenye indawo ukuze ubone ukuthi ibaluleke kangakanani. ~Pat Oliphant
  5. Kufanele ubhikishele imibono yabantu ongavumelani nabo ezindabeni ezinkulu zokuziphatha, futhi uphikisane nabo, kodwa akufanele uzame ukubathulisa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubathola benengeka kangakanani. Lelo iphilisi elibabayo lenkululeko yokukhuluma lidinga ukuthi siligwinye. ~UJulian Baggi
  6. Umbono wokuthi izinkampani zinokuvikeleka okufanayo kweSichibiyelo Sokuqala sokukhuluma ngokukhululeka njengabantu uyahlupha. Izinkampani akuzona abantu. Abafundi ezikoleni zethu, bashade futhi babe nezingane. Abavoti okhethweni lwethu. ~Hank Johnson
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Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabo bonke abangani bakho:

Ingabe uthole lezi zicaphuno zenkululeko yokukhuluma zithakazelisa futhi zishukumisa ingqondo?

Uma wenze njalo, mhlawumbe bangathakasela abanye obaziyo, nabo.

Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngoba uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina. Uma ungabelana ngakho manje, ngizohlala ngibonga kakhulu.

Ngiyabonga ngokweseka kwakho.

Izindatshana ongase uzijabulele:

Izingcaphuno ezingu-50 ezikhuthazayo zokuqalisa usuku

Uma ufuna izingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo zokuqalisa usuku, mfundi othandekayo, lokhu okuthunyelwe kungokwakho kuphela.

Usuku ngalunye luletha i-slate ehlanzekile. Unamahora angama-24 ongawakha ngokugxila kwakho, izinqumo zakho, kanye nokuzimisela kwakho.

Nakuba kulula ukubuka usuku njengokukhuphuka intaba, ukucabanga okufanele kungaguqula lowo mfutho wokuqala ube yimpumelelo ehlala njalo.

Isikhathi sakho esidlule besiwuchungechunge lwezifundo nje. Asichazi ikusasa lakho. Akukaze kube sekwephuzile ukuguqula impilo oyiphilayo. Kungaba yilokho okufunayo ngebhizinisi kanye nomsebenzi onzima.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unemigomo yesikhathi eside enenjongo, uqala iphrojekthi entsha, noma mhlawumbe ufuna ukubeka isimo esihle sezinsuku ezizayo, ugqozi luvame ukuqala ngombono owodwa onamandla.

Namuhla ngikunikeza izingcaphuno ezingama-50 ezingaphelelwa yisikhathi ezivela kubacabangi abakhulu, abaholi, kanye nabadali bomlando ukuze bakhanyise indlela yakho, balole ukugxila kwakho, futhi bakusize ube nekusasa lakho.

KHUMBULA: ikusasa alikabhalwa, kodwa wena unayo ipeni.

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  1. Ikhwalithi akuyona isenzo, kuwumkhuba. ~Aristotle
  2. Uphuphe kakhulu futhi unesibindi sokwehluleka. ~Norman Vaughan
  3. Akukho okuzosebenza ngaphandle kokuthi wenze. ~Maya Angelou
  4. Akukho okunye okungathatha indawo yokusebenza kanzima. ~Thomas Edison
  5. Ukuzivikela kuyisibonakaliso sokuqala sokunqotshwa. ~Samuel Johnson
  6. Noma ngabe ugijima usuku, noma usuku lugijima wena. ~Jim Rohn
  7. Kuhlala kubonakala kungenakwenzeka kuze kube yilapho sekuqediwe. ~Nelson Mandela
  8. Yenza into eyodwa nsuku zonke ekwesabisayo. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
  9. Gxila ekukhiqizeni kunokuba matasa. ~Tim Ferriss
  10. Isibindi siwumusa ngaphansi kwengcindezi. ~Ernest Hemingway
  11. Khanyisa kusasa namuhla. ~Elizabeth Barrett Browning
  12. Ikusasa lincike kulokho okwenzayo namuhla. ~Mahatma Gandhi
  13. Amandla nokuphikelela kunqoba zonke izinto. ~ UBenjamin Franklin
  14. Imfihlo yokuqhubekela phambili iwukuqala. ~Mark Twain
  15. Isenzo siwukhiye oyisisekelo kuyo yonke impumelelo. ~Pablo Picasso
  16. Kholwa ukuthi ungakwazi, futhi usuphakathi nendawo. ~Theodore Roosevelt
  17. Ukuphela kwendlela yokwenza umsebenzi omuhle ukuthanda lokho okwenzayo. ~Steve Jobs
  18. Ingqondo iyikho konke. Lokho ocabanga ukuthi uba yikho. ~Buddha
  19. Uphuthelwa okungu-100% kwezithombe ongazithwebuli. ~Wayne Gretzky
  20. Phakathi nobunzima kukhona ithuba. ~Albert Einstein
  21. Ukutshala imali olwazini kuletha inzalo engcono kakhulu. ~Benjamin Franklin
  22. Izenzo ezincane ezenziwe zingcono kunezenzo ezinkulu ezihleliwe. ~Peter Marshall
  23. Indlela yokuqala ukuyeka ukukhuluma bese uqala ukwenza. ~Walt Disney
  24. Awukwazi ukuzakhela idumela ngalokho ozokwenza. ~Henry Ford
  25. Akudingeki ube muhle ukuze uqale, kodwa kufanele uqale ube muhle. ~Zig Ziglar
  26. Qala lapho ukhona. Sebenzisa lokho onakho. Yenza lokho ongakwenza. ~Arthur Ashe
  27. Impumelelo ayiyona into yokugcina, ukwehluleka akubulali: isibindi sokuqhubeka esibalulekile. ~Winston Churchill
  28. Okusemuva kwethu nalokho okuphambi kwethu kuyizinto ezincane uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho okungaphakathi kithi. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
  29. Ithalente lakho linquma ukuthi yini ongayenza. Isisusa sakho sinquma ukuthi uzimisele kangakanani ukwenza. Isimo sakho sengqondo sinquma ukuthi ukwenza kahle kangakanani. ~Lou Holtz
  30. Ungazibali izinsuku, yenza izinsuku zibale. ~Muhammad Ali
  31. Amathuba awenzeki, uyawadala. ~Chris Grosser
  32. Yenza okusemandleni akho, ngalokho onakho, lapho ukhona. ~Squire Bill Widener
  33. Bhala enhliziyweni yakho ukuthi usuku ngalunye luwusuku oluhle kakhulu onyakeni. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
  34. Okuwukuphela komkhawulo ekufezeni kwethu ikusasa kuzoba ukungabaza kwethu kwanamuhla. ~UFranklin D. Roosevelt
  35. Hamba uze ufike lapho ubona khona; uma ufika lapho, uzokwazi ukubona kabanzi. ~Thomas Carlyle
  36. Uma ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi olula ubonakale unzima kakhulu, vele uhlehlise ukuwenza. ~Olin Miller
  37. Injabulo ayiyona into eyenziwe ngomumo. Ivela ngezenzo zakho. ~Dalai Lama
  38. Yakha amaphupho akho, noma omunye umuntu uzokuqasha ukuze wakhe awakhe. ~Farrah Gray
  39. Angiyena umkhiqizo wezimo zami. Ngingumkhiqizo wezinqumo zami. ~Stephen Covey
  40. Izinto ezinkulu zenziwa uchungechunge lwezinto ezincane ezihlanganisiwe. ~Vincent van Gogh
  41. Zama ukungabi yindoda ephumelelayo. Kunalokho yiba yindoda eyigugu. ~Albert Einstein
  42. Konke oke wakufuna kungakolunye uhlangothi lokwesaba. ~George Addair
  43. Ikusasa lingelalabo abakholelwa ebuhleni bamaphupho abo. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
  44. Ukuphelela akunakwenzeka, kodwa uma siphishekela ukuphelela, singakuthola ukuphelela. ~Vince Lombardi
  45. Awugugi kakhulu ukuthi ungabeka omunye umgomo noma uphuphe iphupho elisha. ~CS Lewis
  46. Shintsha imicabango yakho, futhi ushintsha umhlaba wakho. ~Norman Vincent Peale
  47. Lokho esesaba kakhulu ukukwenza ngokuvamile yilokho okudingeka sikwenze kakhulu. ~Tim Ferriss
  48. Ungalindi; isikhathi asisoze saba 'silungile.' Qala lapho umi khona. ~Napoleon Hill
  49. Siyilokho esikwenza ngokuphindaphindiwe. Ngakho-ke, ukwenza kahle akusona isenzo, kodwa umkhuba. ~Will Durant
  50. Isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokutshala isihlahla sasiyiminyaka engama-20 edlule. Isikhathi sesibili esihle kakhulu manje. ~Isaga sesiShayina
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Uma uthole ukuthi lezi zingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo zokuqala usuku ziwusizo, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nabangani bakho.

Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.

Ngakho qhubeka, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe manje.

Uma ungangenzela lokho, ngizohlala ngibonga, futhi uzobe usiza i-blogger ekhuthele ukufinyelela izethameli eziningi.

Ukwesekwa kwakho kuyancomeka. Ngiyabonga.

Intuthuko Yomuntu Siqu: Indlela yokukhetha ukuthi yini ozogxila kuyo kuqala

Lesi sihloko singesakho uma uzibuza ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani ukuthi yini ozogxila kuyo kuqala.

Kukhona okuthile okuhle kakhulu mayelana nokunquma ukuthuthukisa impilo yakho.

Uvuka ekuseni ngolunye usuku bese ucabanga:

"Kulungile. Izinto zizoshintsha."

Uzoba nempilo enhle. Thola imali eningi. Thola umsebenzi ongcono. Yiba nokuzethemba okwengeziwe. Funda kabanzi. Hlela. Thuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho. Funda okuthile okusha. Hamba kakhudlwana. Ekugcineni qala lowo msebenzi obulokhu ucabanga ngawo iminyaka eminingi.

Bese kuba ngokoqobo hits.

Unezinto ezingamashumi amabili ofuna ukuzishintsha kanye nesikhathi namandla anele kuphela ukuze ubhekane nenye noma ezimbili zazo ngendlela efanele.

Yilapho-ke intuthuko yomuntu siqu ingaba nzima kakhulu.

Awunankinga yokuzikhuthaza.

Unenkinga yokubeka izinto phambili.

Futhi kukhona umehluko obalulekile.

Uma abantu benquma ukuzithuthukisa, bavame ukudala uhlu olukhulu lwazo zonke izinto ezingalungile empilweni yabo.

Bese bezama ukulungisa konke.

Ukudla okusha.

Uhlelo olusha lokuzivocavoca.

Isimiso esisha sasekuseni.

Uhlelo olusha lomsebenzi.

Isu elisha lezezimali.

Uhlelo olusha lokukhiqiza.

Izincwadi ezintsha.

Imikhuba emisha.

Imigomo emisha.

Ekupheleni kwesonto lokuqala, sebekhathele.

Ekupheleni kwesibili, sebeyishiyile iningi layo.

Bese kufika umcabango ongenakugwenywa:

"Angikwazi ukunamathela kunoma yini."

Kodwa mhlawumbe akuyona leyo inkinga yangempela.

Mhlawumbe umane uzicele ukuba wenze okuningi kakhulu.

Cabanga uzama ukusunduza izinto ezisindayo eziyishumi ngezindlela eziyishumi ezahlukene.

Ubungeke wenze intuthuko encane kakhulu.

Manje cabanga ngokubeka wonke umzamo wakho ngemuva kwakho.

Yilokho okwenziwa ukugxila.

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Uma unezindawo eziningi ongathanda ukuzithuthukisa, zibuze:

Yilapho uqala khona.

Qaphela lokho ongakubuzi.

Awubuzi:

"Yini engifuna ukuyenza kakhulu?"

Uyabuza:

"Yini engenza umehluko omkhulu?"

Leyo imibuzo ehluke kakhulu.

Ungase ufise kakhulu ukufunda iSpanishi.

Kodwa uma ubhekene nobunzima ngokwezimali, ukuthuthukisa imali engenayo yakho kungaba nomthelela omkhulu kakhulu.

Ungase ufune ukuhlobisa kabusha ikhaya lakho.

Kodwa uma ukhathele ngoba isimiso sakho sansuku zonke siphazamisekile, ukulawula isimiso sakho kungaba nomphumela omkhulu.

Ungase ufune ukuzethemba kakhudlwana.

Kodwa ukuthuthukisa ikhono, ukuba sesimweni esihle noma ekugcineni ukubhekana nento obuyigwema kungase kwandise ukuzethemba kwakho ngokwemvelo.

Icebo ukuthola iphuzu lakho lokusebenzisa amandla.

Iphuzu lokuphakamisa liyintuthuko eyenza ezinye izinguquko zibe lula.

Cabanga ngakho njenge-domino.

Akudingeki ukuthi uwise wonke ama-domino wena.

Udinga nje ukuthola leyo eqala ukusabela kweketanga. Isibonelo:

Ukulala okungcono

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Amandla amaningi

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Ukuzivocavoca okwengeziwe

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Umoya ongcono

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Ukukhiqiza okukhulu

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Ukuzethemba okukhulu

Ukuthuthuka okukodwa kungadala okunye okuningi.

Yingakho umbuzo ungesiwo nje othi:

"Kufanele ngisebenzele ini?"

Yilokhu:

"Yini okufanele ngisebenzele kuyo engenza konke okunye kube lula?"

Nasi isivivinyo esilula ongasisebenzisa noma nini lapho uzizwa ukhungathekile.

Bhala phansi konke ofuna ukukuthuthukisa.

Bese uthatha into ngayinye bese ubuza imibuzo emine.

1. Kubaluleke kangakanani?

Uma ungakuxazululi lokhu, ingabe kuzoqhubeka nokubangela izinkinga?

2. Kungenza umehluko ongakanani?

Uma uthuthukise le ndawo, impilo yakho ingaba ngcono kangakanani?

3. Ingabe kuzozisiza ezinye izindawo?

Ingabe ukuthuthukisa lokhu kungenza eminye imigomo ibe lula?

4. Ngingayithonya yini?

Ingabe kukhona ongakwenza ngempela ngakho?

Amaphuzu ngalinye kusukela ku-1 kuya ku-5.

Ungase ugcine ngento efana nale:

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Izinombolo akudingeki zibe neqiniso ngokwesayensi.

Akuyona leyo njongo.

Lo msebenzi uyakuphoqa ukuthi uyeke ukucabanga ngakho konke bese uqala ukucabanga ngalokho okubaluleke kakhulu.

Funa umgomo ofaka amaphuzu amaningi ezigabeni eziningana.

Lokho kungaba yindawo oqala kuyo.

Lokhu kungenye yezingibe ezinkulu empilweni yanamuhla.

Sizungezwe izinto ezifuna ukunakwa kwethu.

Ama-imeyili.

Imilayezo.

Izaziso.

Ama-aphoyintimenti.

Umsebenzi wasekhaya.

Ukuthenga.

Imithombo yezokuxhumana.

Izicelo zabanye abantu.

Futhi ngenxa yokuthi bafuna ukunakwa, bazizwa bebalulekile.

Kodwa akuzona ngempela eziqhubekisela phambili impilo yakho.

Zibuze:

"Uma ngingakunaki lokhu izinsuku ezingu-30 ezizayo, ingabe impilo yami ingaba yimbi ngempela?"

Uma impendulo ingucha, cishe akuyona into eza kuqala kuwe.

Manje buza:

"Uma bengisebenza njalo kulokhu izinsuku ezingu-30 ezizayo, ingabe impilo yami ingaba ngcono kakhulu?"

Uma impendulo inguyebo, uthole okuthile okufanele ukuphenywe.

Umehluko owusizo:

IYAPHUTHUMA
Izinto ezifuna ukunakwa kwakho manje.

OKUBALULEKILE
Izinto ezithuthukisa impilo yakho ngempela.

IZIPHAZAMISO
Izinto ezidla ukunaka kwakho ngaphandle kokukuqhubekisela phambili.

Umgomo wakho awukona ukususa konke okuphuthumayo.

Kuwukuqinisekisa ukuthi okuphuthumayo akugcini ngokuphelele okubalulekile.

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Esinye isizathu esenza abantu baphelelwe amandla ukuthi imigomo yabo mikhulu kakhulu.

Bathi:

“Ngifuna ukuqina.”

"Ngifuna ukuceba."

"Ngifuna umsebenzi ohluke ngokuphelele."

"Ngifuna ukuzethemba."

Lezi yizifiso.

Ziwusizo.

Kodwa azikabi yizenzo okwamanje.

Ziguqule zibe izikhombisi-ndlela.

Esikhundleni se:

"Ngidinga ukululama."

Zama:

"Ngizohamba imizuzu engama-20 kathathu kuleli sonto."

Esikhundleni se:

"Ngidinga umsebenzi ongcono."

Zama:

"Ngizocwaninga ngemisebenzi emithathu engiyithandayo."

Esikhundleni se:

"Ngidinga ukulungisa izimali zami."

Zama:

"Ngizolandela ukuthi ikhilogremu ngalinye liya kuphi ezinsukwini eziyisikhombisa ezizayo."

Esikhundleni se:

"Ngidinga ukuzethemba kakhudlwana."

Zama:

"Ngizokwenza into eyodwa kuleli sonto engiyigwemayo."

Izinguqulo zokuqala zidala ingcindezi.

Izinguqulo zesibili zakha ukunyakaza.

Futhi ukunyakaza yilokho okudingayo.

Nansi inselele elula.

Ungazibophezeli ekushintsheni impilo yakho unomphela.

Zibophezele ezinsukwini ezingu-30.

Khetha:

Indawo EYODWA

Inhloso EYODWA

Isenzo ESISODWA esingaphindeka

Ngokwesibonelo:

UKUFANELEKA

Umgomo: Yiba matasa kakhulu.

Isenzo: Hamba imizuzu engama-30 izinsuku ezinhlanu ngesonto.

IMALI

Inhloso: Ukuqonda ukuthi imali yami iya kuphi.

Isinyathelo: Bhala phansi yonke imali esetshenzisiwe izinsuku ezingu-30.

CAREER

Inhloso: Hlola amathuba angcono.

Isinyathelo: Chitha imizuzu engama-30 kathathu ngesonto ucwaninga ngamathuba.

ISIVIVINYO

Umgomo: Zithokozise kakhulu ngokwenza izinto ezinzima.

Isenzo: Yenza into eyodwa eyakhayo nsuku zonke engingenza ngingakhululeki kancane.

Ekupheleni kwezinsuku ezingu-30, yeka.

Buyekeza.

Yini esebenzile?

Yini engazange ikwenze lokho?

Ufundeni?

Bese unquma ukuthi yini elandelayo.

Lokho kuyintuthuko yomuntu siqu.

Akukho noshintsho olukhulu.

Uchungechunge lwezivivinyo ezihlakaniphile.

Uma umgomo wakho uzwakala unzima, kungenzeka ukuthi usuwenze waba mkhulu kakhulu.

Ungabuzi:

"Yini engingayenza kakhulu?"

Buza:

"Yini into encane kakhulu engingayenza njalo?"

Ufuna ukuzivocavoca?

Qala ngemizuzu eyi-15.

Ufuna ukufunda?

Qala ngamakhasi amahlanu.

Ufuna ukubhala?

Qala ngamagama angu-200.

Ufuna ukonga imali?

Qala ngokulandelela indlela osebenzisa ngayo imali.

Ufuna ukususa imfucuza?

Qala ngedrowa elilodwa.

Ufuna ukwakha ukuzethemba?

Yenza into eyodwa obulokhu uyigwema.

Inhloso akuyona ukuzihlaba umxhwele.

Kuwukuzibonakalisa ngokwakho:

“Ngingakwenza lokhu.”

Ukunqoba okuncane kubalulekile ngoba kudala ubufakazi bokuthi uyakwazi ukuthatha isinyathelo - futhi lobo bufakazi bungenza isinyathelo esilandelayo sibe lula.

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Kukhona enye ingozi lapha.

Ungaba nesithakazelo esikhulu ekuzithuthukiseni kangangokuthi ukufunda ngokuthuthuka kuba yisinqumo sokuthuthukisa ngempela.

Ufunde enye incwadi.

Lalela enye i-podcast.

Bukela enye ividiyo.

Landa olunye uhlelo lokusebenza lokukhiqiza.

Dala olunye uhlelo.

Cwaninga ngenye indlela.

Futhi uzizwe ukhiqiza kakhulu.

Ngaphandle...

Akukho okushintshile.

Khumbula lokhu:

Ulwazi aluyona inguquko.

Ukufunda ngokuzivocavoca akusikho ukuzivocavoca.

Ukufunda ngemali akusikho ukuphatha imali yakho.

Ukufunda ngokuzethemba akusikho ukuzethemba.

Ukufunda ngokukhiqiza akusho ukukhiqiza.

Funda lokho okudingeka ukwazi.

Bese ubeka incwadi phansi.

Futhi wenze okuthile.

Nansi indlela enamandla ngokumangalisayo.

Uma usukhethile okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, yenza olunye uhlu.

Yibize ngokuthi:

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Qaphela indlela okubhalwe ngayo.

Awusho ukuthi awusoze.

Uthi:

"Lokhu akuyona into eza kuqala kimi njengamanje."

Lowo mehluko uyakhulula.

Ungaziphishekela lezo zinto kamuva.

Kodwa okwamanje, uzinike imvume yokugxila.

Kanye ngesonto, thatha imizuzu eyishumi.

Zibuze imibuzo emihlanu.

1. Yini ehambe kahle?

Gubha inqubekelaphambili.

Ngisho nentuthuko encane.

2. Yini engahambanga kahle?

Ungazigxeki.

Yiba nelukuluku.

3. Yini engiyifundile?

Yonke imizamo ehlulekile ikunikeza ulwazi.

4. Yini okufanele ngiyishintshe?

Lungisa isu.

Ungawushiyi ngokuzenzakalelayo umgomo.

5. Yini EYODWA ebalulekile ngesonto elizayo?

Futhi nanso futhi.

Enye into.

Ngezinye izikhathi unezimfuneko eziningana ezibalulekile ngempela.

Uma lokho kwenzeka, sebenzisa lolu hlelo:

FIRST

Yini engabangela izinkinga ezinkulu uma ngingayinaki?

Bhekana nezingozi zangempela.

SECOND

Yini eqeda amandla amaningi?

Ukunciphisa umthombo omkhulu wokucindezeleka kungadala amandla okwenza konke okunye.

ITHESI

Yini engadala ushintsho olukhulu kakhulu oluhle?

Funa amandla okusebenzisa imali.

ESINE

Yini engingayithonya ngempela?

Ungachithi amandla uzama ukulawula lokho ongakwazi ukukulawula.

Wesihlanu

Yisiphi isinyathelo esincane kakhulu esiwusizo engingasithatha?

Yilapho uqala khona.

Lokhu kungaba yinto eqinisekisayo kakhulu ozoyifunda namuhla.

Awudingi uhlelo lweminyaka emihlanu.

Akudingeki wazi injongo yakho yokugcina.

Akudingeki wazi kahle ukuthi uzobe ukuphi eminyakeni eyishumi ezayo.

Futhi ngokuqinisekile awudingi ukuthi impilo yakho yonke ihlolwe ngaphambi kokuba uqale.

Udinga nje ukwenza isinqumo esingcono kakhulu ongakwenza ngolwazi onalo namuhla.

Bese uthatha isinyathelo.

Leso sinyathelo sikunikeza ulwazi.

Ulwazi lukusiza ukuthi wenze isinqumo esilandelayo.

Futhi okulandelayo.

Yileyo ndlela ushintsho olunenjongo oluvame ukwenzeka ngayo.

Qaphela:

UHLELO? ISINQUMO ESIPHELELE? IMPUMELELO

Kodwa:

CABANGA? ESENZA? FUNDA? KULUNGISA? SEBENZA FUTHI

Uma uzizwa ukhungathekile njengamanje, yeka ukufunda isikhashana.

Thola iphepha.

Bhala phansi konke ofuna ukukushintsha.

Ungazihleli.

Ungazahluleli.

Bhala nje.

Manje kokelezela izinto ezintathu ezingenza umehluko omkhulu.

Bese ubuza:

"Uma ngingathuthukisa EYODWA kuphela kulezi zinsuku ezingu-30 ezizayo, iyiphi engingayikhetha?"

Yizungeze.

Manje buza:

Kubhale phansi.

Bese ukwenza.

Yilokho kuphela.

Usuqalile.

Ushintsho olunenjongo aluvamile ukwenzeka ngoba ngokuzumayo uba nomdlandla omkhulu.

Kwenzeka ngomjikelezo:

KHETHA? WENZA? FUNDA? KULUNGISA? PHINDELA

Ukhetha into eza kuqala.

Uthatha isinyathelo esincane.

Uyabona ukuthi kwenzekani.

Ufunda.

Ulungisa indlela yakho yokwenza izinto.

Bese ukwenza futhi.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lezo zenzo ezincane zakha umfutho.

Uma ukhumbula into eyodwa kuphela kulesi sihloko, khumbula lokhu:

KONKE ENGIFANA UKUKUSHINTSHA

?

KHETHA INDAWO EYODWA

?

THOLA ISIVIVINYO

?

Beka umgomo owodwa

?

THATHA ISINYATHELO ESISODWA ESINCANE

?

REPEAT

?

BUYEKEZA FUTHI UFUNDE

?

KHETHA ISINYATHELO ESILANDELAYO

Akudingeki ushintshe impilo yakho yonke namuhla.

Udinga nje ukuthuthukisa ingxenye eyodwa yayo.

Bese kuba omunye.

Bese kuba omunye.

Lezo zithuthukisi ezincane ziqala ukuqina.

Futhi ekugcineni kwenzeka into emangalisayo.

Ubheka emuva bese uqaphela ukuthi awuzange uguqule impilo yakho ngokukhuthazeka okukhulu.

Ushintshe lokhu ngezinqumo ezincane eziningi ukuze wenze into engcono kancane kunangaphambili.

Uma uzama ukuthuthukisa impilo yakho, ungabuzi ukuthi:

"Ngingakulungisa kanjani konke?"

Lowo ngumbuzo ongenakwenzeka.

Buza:

"Yini into eyodwa engingayithuthukisa engenza umehluko omkhulu omuhle?"

Bese usenza sibe sincane.

Khetha isenzo esisodwa.

Kwenze njalo.

Funda kulokho okwenzekayo.

Lungisa.

Phinda.

Akudingeki ukuthi unqume ikusasa lakho.

Udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyinake ngokulandelayo.

Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo yikho konke ukucaca okudingayo.

Ingabe uthole lesi sihloko sithakazelisa futhi siwusizo, mfundi othandekayo?

Uma kunjalo, sicela wabelane ngakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nabangane bakho. Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.

Ngakho sicela wabelane ngakho manje. Uma wenza kanjalo, ngizohlale ngibonga, futhi uzobe usiza i-blogger ekhuthele ukufinyelela izethameli eziningi.

Ngiyabonga.

5 amahlaya ahlekisayo ukutshela abangani bakho futhi ubenze bamamatheke

AMAHLAYA AMA-5 AHLEKILEYO OKUTSHELA ABANGANI BAKHO

Zimbalwa izinto ekuphileni ezingahlula ukuhleka. Nokho, into engcono ukwenza abangani bakho bahleke. Ngakho-ke uma ufuna amahlaya ahlekisayo ongawatshela abangani bakho, khona-ke namuhla ngikunikeza amahlanu awo, engiqinisekayo ukuthi azophakamisa ukumamatheka noma okubili.

Ngakho thatha isikhashana ukuze uzijabulele, bese uzizwe ukhululekile ukukudlulisela kwabanye.

Kuhlale kukuhle ukwabelana ngokumamatheka.

Enza imali

Amahlaya ahlekisayo okutshela abangani bakho:

1. Ithempeli Lokuphumula:

Lapho ngineminyaka engaba yisikhombisa ubudala, ubaba wangiyisa enkampanini yabangcwabi yendawo, njengoba ayefuna ukuhlonipha uzakwethu omdala owayesebenza naye owayesanda kushona.

Lona kwakuyindoda engangingakaze ngihlangane nayo, kodwa yayibalulekile kubaba, futhi wayecabanga ukuthi kungaba yinto enhle kimina ukuba ngimphelezele.

Njengoba sasilinde ithuba lokubuka ibhokisi elivuliwe, ngahlala ngithule ekhoneni, ngilindele ukuba kudlule isikhathi.

Kungazelelwe, umnyango weChapel of Rest wavuleka, kwaphuma indoda endala engangingakaze ngiyibone, futhi njengoba yenza kanjalo, yangimoyizela yathi, “ Qiniseka ukuthi uyayijabulela impilo yakho, ndodana. Jabula ngoba konke kuzodlula ngokuphazima kweso. Ngibheke, angizange, futhi manje sekwephuze kakhulu.

Ngemva kwalokho, le ndoda yanyamalala ngomnyango emgwaqeni, kwase kuyithuba lethu lokubuka isidumbu futhi sinike inhlonipho.

Sahamba ngesizotha sayongena eChapel of Rest, ngabuka ibhokisi elivuliwe.

Ngashaqeka. Angizange ngikholwe. Isidumbu esasisebhokisini kwakuyindoda eyayisanda kukhuluma nami.

Hhayi-ke, ngahlukumezeka kakhulu ngesipiliyoni. Nganginamaphupho amabi, futhi ngesaba ukuba ngedwa. Ngangingakwazi ukulala ngaphandle kokukhanyisa iminyaka eminingana.

Kwaba kubi kangangokuthi kwadingeka ngiyothola ukwelashwa kwengqondo nokwelulekwa.

Njengoba ngikhula, kancane kancane ngaqala ukuphila kangcono, kwaze kwaba ngolunye usuku ngathola okuthile okwashintsha ngokuphelele ukuphila kwami.

Ngathola ukuthi uzakwethu kababa owashona wayenewele elifanayo.

UPhil Sutton

2. Ukuhlolwa Kokushayela:

UJane wafika ekhaya, esanda kuhlola ukushayela okwesishiyagalolunye.

Njengokulindelekile, umyeni wakhe, uBill, wayemagange ukwazi ukuthi wayefike kanjani kulesi sikhathi.

Ngakho-ke, sthandwa, kwenzeke kanjani kulokhu? ” kubuza uBill.

Akukuhle ,” kuphendula uJane. “ Bangiphoxile futhi .”

Ngempela? ” kusho uBill, ezwakala edumele ngaye. “ Bakukhungathekise ngani kulokhu?

Intambo ,” kuphendula uJane, ngokuthuka.

Intambo? ” kubuza uBill, ebukeka edidekile kancane.

Yebo, yileyo ndlela abangikhiphe ngayo ,” kuphendula uJane. “ Imoto isesemfuleni .”

3. Inkinga Yokungazali:

Umlimi wangena endaweni yokucima ukoma wabiza ingilazi ye-champagne.

Owesifazane owayehleli eceleni kwakhe ekhawunteni wathi, “ Kulungile, kuthiwani ngalokho? Nami ngisanda ku-oda i-champagne!

Yeka ukuhlangana kwento,” kuphendula umlimi. “ Lolu usuku olukhethekile kimi, ngakho ngiyagubha!

Nokho, lolu usuku olukhethekile nakimi, ngakho nami ngiyalugubha ,” kuphendula owesifazane.

Yeka ukuhlangana kwento!” kusho umlimi. Njengoba beshaya izibuko begubha, umlimi wabuza, “ Ugubhani, mama?

Mina nomyeni wami besilokhu sizama ukuba nomntwana ,” kusho owesifazane, “ futhi udokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane usanda kuqinisekisa ukuthi ngikhulelwe!

Yeka ukushayisana! ” kusho umlimi. “ Ngingumlimi wezinkukhu, kanti izinkukhu zami bezingenanzalo unyaka wonke odlule, kodwa namuhla zonke zizalela amaqanda!

Wo, kuhle lokho! ” kusho owesifazane. “ Pho, izinkukhu zakho zazala kanjani ngokuzumayo?

Ngisebenzise i-c*** ehlukile ,” kuphendula umlimi.

Owesifazane wamomotheka, waphinda washaya ingilazi yakhe, wathi, “ Yeka ukuthi kwenzeke ngengozi!

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4. I-Confessional Booth:

Ubaba uMurphy wayevuma izono ngesikhathi umfana osemusha engena endaweni yokuvuma izono.

Ngithethelele, Baba, ngoba ngonile ,” kusho osemusha. “ Bengilokhu ngithandana nentombazane engaziphathi kahle .”

Ingabe nguwe lowo, Jimmy Walsh osemncane?” kubuza uBaba uMurphy.

“Yebo, Baba, kunjalo ,” kuphendula uJimmy osemncane.

Nawe, mfana wase-altare! Ngidumele ngawe, Jimmy ,” kusho uBaba uMurphy. “ Ungubani le ntombazane encane?

Hawu Baba, angifuni ukumenza abe nedumela elibi ,” kusho uJimmy, ezivikela.

Ingabe kwakunguBernadette Kelly? ” kubuza uBaba uMurphy.

“Cha, Baba ,” kusho uJimmy.

Ingabe kwakunguPatricia O'Connor? ” kuqhubeka uBaba uMurphy.

“Cha, Baba ,” kusho uJimmy.

Ingabe kwakunguTeresa O'Sullivan? ” kusho uBaba uMurphy eqhubeka.

Baba, angikwazi ukukunikeza igama lakhe. Ngeke kube kuhle ,” kusho uJimmy.

Ngiyakwazisa ukwethembeka kwakho kule ntombazane, Jimmy, kodwa wonile, futhi uma uphikelela ekutheni uhlale uthule, khona - ke kumelwe wamukele ukuphenduka kwakho ,” kuphendula uBaba uMurphy.

Kuzoba yini lokho, Baba? ” kubuza uJimmy.

Uvinjelwe ukukhonza njengomfana wase-altare futhi izinyanga ezintathu .” UBaba uMurphy waphendula ngokhahlo.

UJimmy osemncane wahamba kancane waya esitulweni, kwathi njengoba ehleli phansi, umngane wakhe uRory wahlebela wathi, “ Kuhambe kanjani?

Uhlelo lusebenze kahle kakhulu,” kuphendula uJimmy emomotheka. “Izinyanga ezintathu zokuphumula kanye nemiklomelo emithathu emihle.

5. Ukuhlinzwa Kokuhlola:

Umkhaya nabangane babehlangene eduze kombhede kaJim, owayequlekile.

Ekugcineni, kwafika udokotela ezokwazisa abathandekayo bakaJim ngesimo sakhe.

Wathula isikhashana udokotela ebona ukukhathazeka ebusweni babo.

Ngiyesaba ukuthi nginezindaba ezimbi ngawe ,” kusho udokotela.

Kuyini, dokotela? ” kubuza umfowabo kaJim.

Kulungile ,” kuphendula udokotela. “ Uma uJim ezosinda, ithemba lakhe kuphela kungaba ukufakelwa ubuchopho. Kumelwe ngikutshele, lolu hlobo lokuhlinzwa lusaseseluhlolo, luyingozi, futhi kuzoba nezindleko okuzodingeka uzikhokhe.

Abathandekayo bakaJim bama lapho bethule bemangele.

Ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa, umkaJim wabuza udokotela, “ Ubuchopho bakhe obusha buzobiza malini?

Kulungile, lokho kuncike ,” kusho udokotela. “ Ubuchopho besilisa bungabiza cishe u-$10,000, kanti ubuchopho besifazane bungaba u-$1,000.

Kwalandela umzuzu ongemuhle, njengoba amadoda aseceleni kombhede kaJim ayengakwazi ukumelana nokumamatheka.

Khona-ke ilukuluku lokwazi lomkaJim lamnqoba.

Kungani ubuchopho besilisa bubiza kangaka, dokotela? ” ebuza.

Kulungile, kuyindlela yethu ejwayelekile ,” kusho udokotela. “ Kufanele sehlise intengo yobuchopho besifazane ngoba busetshenzisiwe.

Enza imali

Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:

Ngakho-ke mfundi othandekayo, ingabe uthole la mahlaya ahlekisayo ukuze utshele abangani bakho njengakuhlekisa njengoba ubufisa? Impela, ngethemba ukuthi bonke bakuhlekile.

Mhlawumbe ungathanda ukuhleka okwengeziwe? Uma kunjalo, sicela uchofoze izixhumanisi ezingezansi.

Futhi uma ukujabulele lokhu okuthunyelwe sicela wabelane ngakho nabangane bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uwinile.

Ukwesekwa kwakho kuyakwazisa ngempela.

Ngiyabonga.

Okunye okujabulisayo ongase ukujabulele:

6 amahlaya ezindaba ezimfushane aqinisekisiwe azokwenza uhleke

6 amahlaya ezindaba ezimfushane

Nawa amahlaya ezindaba ezimfushane ayisithupha aqinisekisiwe azokwenza uhleke. Bangikhalisa ngokuhleka, ngakho ngithemba ukuthi bazolukhanyisa usuku lwakho. Bajabulele bonke.

AMAHLAYA ENDABA EMIFUSHANE
Enza imali

Amahlaya endaba emfushane:

1. Umqoqi Wezikweletu Oyisithulu:

I-Mafia ibifuna umuntu omusha ozokwenza amaqoqo amasonto onke kuwo wonke amabhizinisi azimele ngaphansi kwerekhi yawo yokuvikela.

Njengoba babezwa ukushisa okuvela emaphoyiseni, banquma ukusebenzisa umuntu oyisithulu kulo msebenzi. Uma umuntu oyisithulu ebanjwa, bacabanga ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukuxhumana kalula namaphoyisa.

Ngesonto lakhe lokuqala emsebenzini, umqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu ucosha imali engaphezu kuka-$50,000. Yimali eningi leyo, uyacabanga, nomhobholo womqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu uyamnqoba. Unquma ukuyigcina imali, futhi uyifihla endaweni ephephile.

Kodwa-ke, akuphelanga isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuthi iMafia ibone ukuthi iqoqo seliphuzile futhi ithumela inqwaba yemithwalo ukuyobheka umqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu.

Ngokushesha bamthole bese bebuza oqola izikweletu oyisithulu ukuthi wenzeni ngale mali. Inkinga ukuthi umqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu akakwazi ukuxhumana nabo, ngakho-ke ama-Mafia heavies amhudula amyisa kumhumushi.

Bafika kumhumushi wolimi lwezandla bese uMafioso oyinhloko ethi, “ Ngifuna ubuze ukuthi imali ikuphi.

Ngakho umhumushi usayina, “ Iphi imali?

Umqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu uzama ukuzikhohlisa ngokuthi, “ Angazi ukuthi bakhuluma ngani.

Umhumushi ubheka uMafioso bese ethi, “ Uthi akazi ukuthi ukhuluma ngani.

UMafioso ufaka isandla sakhe ejazini lakhe akhiphe isibhamu se-.44 Remington Magnum, asikhomba ebunzini lomqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu, futhi ngezwi lakhe elibi kakhulu, uthi kumhumushi, “ Mbuze ukuthi imali ikuphi, umtshele ukuthi ngeke ngiphinde ngimcele.

Ngakho-ke umhumushi usayina ngokushesha, “ Iphi imali? Uthi ngeke aphinde abuze, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi uqinisile.

Kuleli qophelo, umqoqi wezikweletu oyisithulu uyathuthumela, bese esayina, “ I-$50,000 iseCentral Park, ifihliwe esiqwini sesihlahla sesithathu ngakwesobunxele ngasesangweni eduze ne-72nd Street eCentral Park West, futhi eduze neStrawberry Fields.

Ephelelwa yisineke, uMafioso ubheka umhumushi bese ebuza, “ Utheni?

Umhumushi ubheka uMafioso bese ethi, “ Uthi akakakwazi ukuthi ukhuluma ngani, ucabanga ukuthi uyisiwula, futhi akacabangi ukuthi unamandla okudonsa isibhamu!

2. I-Balloonist kanye noMhleli:

Indoda indiza ngebhaluni lomoya oshisayo futhi ngokushesha iyabona ukuthi ilahlekile ngokuphelele.

Ngakho uqala ukwehlisa ukuphakama bese ngokuzumayo ubona indoda phansi. Wehlisa ibhaluni kancane bese ememeza: “ Uxolo, mnumzane, bengizibuza, ungangitshela ukuthi ngikuphi? Kubonakala sengathi ngilahlekile.

Imangazwe, indoda ibheka phezulu bese iphendula ithi, “ Yebo, kulula lokho. Usebhaluni lomoya oshisayo, elihamba cishe ngamamitha angu-25 ngaphezu kwale nsimu.

Kumelwe usebenze ku-IT. Ngicabanga ukuthi usebenza njengomhleli wezinhlelo? ” kusho umdlali webhaluni.

Ngiyavuma futhi yebo, ngiyavuma, ” kuphendula indoda, ibukeka imangele kancane. “ Uqagele kanjani?

Kulungile, ” kusho umshayi webhaluni, “ konke ongitshele khona kuyiqiniso ngokobuchwepheshe, kodwa akusizi ngalutho kunoma ubani.

Umhleli wezinhlelo uyamomotheka bese ethi, “ Ah, kumelwe ukuba unguMphathi Omkhulu webhizinisi.

Yebo, nginguye, ” kuphendula umshayi webhaluni, “ kodwa ubungazi kanjani lokho?

Kulula lokho, ” kusho umhleli wezinhlelo. “ Awazi ukuthi ukuphi noma uyaphi, kodwa ulindele ukuthi ngikwazi ukukusiza. Usesimweni esifanayo nangaphambi kokuba sihlangane, kodwa manje yiphutha lami.

3. Ingwe, Umuntu, noNkulunkulu:

Indoda ijahwa ingwe.

Ugijima kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi ekugcineni, ufika onqenqemeni lwewa ingwe isalijaha.

Indoda ibheka onqenqemeni lwewa futhi ibona igatsha elimila eceleni kwewa elingamamitha ambalwa nje phansi.

Ingenayo enye indlela, le ndoda igxuma ibambe igatsha ngaphambi nje kokuba ingwe ifike onqenqemeni lwewa.

Ingwe ibhodla ngonya futhi ihamba ihlehla naphambili onqenqemeni lwewa. Indoda iphefumula ngokukhululeka, njengoba icabanga ukuthi ihlakaniphile kunengwe.

Ngaleso sikhathi, kuvela igundane elincane emfantwini wedwala, futhi liqala ukuhlafuna igatsha.

Indoda ibheka phansi endaweni engamamitha angamakhulu. Uma iwa, ngokuqinisekile kuzoholela ekufeni kwayo. Ngakho ibheka ezulwini yamemeza, “ Nkulunkulu othandekayo, uma ukhona, ngicela ungisize. Ngizokwenza noma yini oyicelayo, kodwa ngicela ungisize.

Uthi uzokwenza noma yini engiyicelayo?” Ngaphandle kokuba ibuzwe? ” kuzwakala izwi livela ezulwini phezulu.

Indoda iyamangala ukuthola impendulo esheshayo esicelweni sayo, kodwa iyamemeza ithi, “ Ngizokwenza noma yini oyicelayo ngenjabulo, kodwa ngicela ungisindise.

Kukhona indlela eyodwa yokukusindisa, kodwa kuzodinga isibindi nokholo, ” kusho izwi elivela phezulu.

Indoda izwa ukuthi igatsha liqala ukuba buthaka njengoba igundane liqhubeka lilidla, futhi ibona ingwe lisahambahamba, igquma onqenqemeni lwewa ngamamitha ambalwa ngaphezu kwayo.

Ngicela, Nkosi, ngitshele okufanele ngikwenze, futhi ngizokwenza. Intando yakho iyisiyalo sami, ” kumemeza indoda ngokuphelelwa yithemba.

Kulungile-ke, yekela igatsha ,” kuphendula izwi elivela ezulwini.

Indoda ibheka phansi ekuweni okungamamitha angamakhulu nokufa okuthile. Abheke phezulu ingwe elambile emafidi ambalwa ngaphezu kwakhe, bese ebuka igundane lisahlafuna egatsheni.

Ube esebheka phezulu ezulwini futhi amemeze athi, “ Akekho omunye umuntu lapho engingakhuluma naye?

AMAHLAYA ENDABA EMIFUSHANE
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4. I-Mercedes Dealship:

Ikhehla elithile labuyela esitolo sakwaMercedes lathola ukuthi lo mdayisi wayesanda kudayisa imoto ayeyithanda kumuntu obhinqileyo obhinqile.

Bengicabanga ukuthi uthe uzongigcinela leyo moto ngize nginyuse intengo eceliwe engu-$75,000 ,” kusho indoda endala. “ Manje ngitshelwe ukuthi usanda kuvala isivumelwano sika-$65,000 kuleyo ntokazi enhle laphaya. Uphikelele ukuthi akukho saphulelo kulolu hlobo.

Kulungile, mnumzane, ngingakutshelani? ” kuphendula umthengisi, emomotheka. “ Wayephethe imali esandleni sakhe, bese umbheka nje; muhle kakhulu. Ngingamelana kanjani ?”

Kulokhu iqhamuke lentokazi isondele ekhehleni ifike imnike izikhiye zemoto.

Nanso-ke ,” kusho yena. “ Ngikutshelile ukuthi ngingamcela lo mhlekisi ukuthi ehlise intengo yakhe ayicelayo. Sizobonana kamuva, Mkhulu .”

Imfundiso yendaba: Ungalokothi udlale nabantu abadala!

5. I-Genie:

I-ejenti yesevisi yamakhasimende, umabhalane wezokuphatha, kanye nomphathi wabo bonke baya esidlweni sasemini lapho befica isibani sikawoyela esidala, sakudala.

Njengoba bazi ukuthi isibani sikawoyela esidala ngokuvamile singahlala i-genie, basihlikihla ngentshiseko benethemba eligcwele.

Impela, kuvela i-genie.

Ngingumoya wesibani, futhi ngamunye wenu angaba nesifiso esisodwa ,” kusho umoya.

Mina kuqala! Mina kuqala !” kusho i-ejenti yesevisi yamakhasimende. “ Ngifuna ukuba seBahamas, ngishayela isikebhe esisheshayo, ngingenandaba.

Kuzwakale umsindo opholile olandelwa yifu lentuthu, futhi umenzeli wenkonzo yamakhasimende akasekho.

Mina olandelayo! Mina olandelayo! ” kusho unobhala wezokuphatha. “ Ngifuna ukuba seHawaii, ngiphumule ogwini lolwandle nginokudla okungapheli kwePina Coladas kanye nothando lwempilo yami.

Kuzwakale umsindo wentuthu ulandelwa yifu lentuthu, nonobhala wezokuphatha akasekho

I-genie ibheka umphathi bese ithi, “ Kulungile, Boss, ngicabanga ukuthi sekuyithuba lakho manje.

Ngifuna labo ababili babuyele ehhovisi ngemizuzu engama-45, ” kuphendula umphathi.

Ukuziphatha kwendaba: Kuhlale kungumqondo omuhle ukuyeka umphathi wakho ahambe kuqala.

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6. Incekukazi yaseMexico:

Incekukazi yaseMexico icela ukunyuselwa iholo kowesifazane wasekhaya.

Inkosikazi ayijabule ngalokhu, ngakho inquma ukukhuluma nencekukazi mayelana nesicelo sayo semali eyengeziwe.

Manje, Maria, kungani ufuna imali eyengeziwe? ” ubuza.

Kulungile, Señora, kunezizathu ezintathu zokuthi kungani ngifuna ukwandisa izinga, ” kuphendula incekukazi. “ Okokuqala ukuthi ngi-ayina kangcono kunawe.

Maria, ubani othe u-ayina kangcono kunami? ” kuphendula inkosikazi.

" Jor huzban usho kanjalo Señora, " kuphendula uMaria.

O, wakwenza, akunjalo? ” kusho umkakhe. “ Futhi siyini isizathu sakho sesibili?

Isizathu sesibili sokuthi ngingumpheki ongcono kunawe, ” kuphendula uMaria.

Lokho akunangqondo. Ngubani owathi ungumpheki ongcono kunami? ” kubuza inkosikazi.

Jor hozban deed Señora, ” kuphendula uMaria.

O, ukwenzile, akunjalo? ” kuphendula umkakhe, eqala ukukhathazeka kakhulu.

Isizathu sesithathu sokuthi ngingcono kunawe embhedeni, ” kusho uMaria.

Inkosikazi yendlu manje ithukuthele futhi, ngenxa yamazinyo aqinile, iyabuza, “ Futhi ingabe umyeni wami naye ushilo lokho?

Cha Señora, umsebenzi wasengadini, ” kuphendula uMaria.

Kulungile , ufuna malini? ” kubuza umqashi wakhe.

Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:

Uma uwajabulele lawa amahlaya ezindaba ezimfushane, mfundi othandekayo, ngicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nabangane bakho.

Yabelana ngobumnandi, futhi wonke umuntu uyawina.

Beka ukumamatheka ebusweni bomunye umuntu futhi wenze isenzo sakho esihle sosuku. Ngakho qhubeka, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe manje.

Futhi uma uthanda ukuhleka okwengeziwe, bese uchofoza izixhumanisi ezingezansi. Uzothola inala yokukwenza umomotheke.

Ukwesekwa kwakho kuyancomeka. Ngiyabonga.

Okunye okujabulisayo ongase ukujabulele:

31 Izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo zikaLucius B. Wack

Uma izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo ozifunayo, mfundi othandekayo, khona-ke nginokuphawula okuhle kakhulu okungu-31 okuvela kumngane wami omuhle uLucius B. Wack.

Abafundi abavamile bazokwazi ukuthi ezimbalwa zezinto zami zakamuva zikhethe izingcaphuno ezivela kulesi sazi sefilosofi yesimanje.

Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, uLucius B. Wack ungumuntu engimthandayo, ngakho ngicabange ukuthi kungase kujabulise ukwabelana ngeminye yemicabango yakhe ngempilo namuhla.

Ngakho-ke, funda lezi zicaphuno ezithakazelisayo futhi ubone ukuthi ucabangani.

Ngithemba ukuthi lokhu okuphawuliwe mayelana nempilo yesimanje emazweni aseNtshonalanga kuyathakazelisa.

Uma wenza kanjalo, sicela ukhululeke ukuwadlulisela kubangani bakho.

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Izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo (1-10):

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Izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo (11-20):

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Izingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo (21-31):

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Sicela wabelane ngalezi zicaphuno ezihlakaniphile:

Uma uthole lezi zingcaphuno ezithakazelisayo zishukumisa ingqondo, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana nabangani bakho.

Uma wabelana, wonke umuntu uyawina.

Ngakho qhubeka, sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe manje.

Uma ungangenzela lokho, ngizohlala ngibonga, futhi uzobe usiza i-blogger ekhuthele ukufinyelela izethameli eziningi.

Ukwesekwa kwakho kuyancomeka. Ngiyabonga.

Izindatshana ongazijabulela:

Izingcaphuno eziyi-15 ezidumile zikaDolly Parton ngoDolly Parton

Namuhla ngifuna ukubheka ezinye izingcaphuno ezidumile zikaDolly Parton mayelana noDolly Parton.

Bonke abalandeli bomculo bazobe bethukile ukuzwa izindaba zokufa okudabukisayo kukaDolly Parton odumile. Nakuba ayevame ukulahlwa njengezinto ayedume ngazo, uDolly Parton wayefanelwe yinhlonipho yethu. Ngombono wami, wayehlakaniphile futhi enethalente, futhi wayenehlaya elihle kakhulu. Ngeke kuphinde kube khona omunye uDolly. Lala ngokuthula, Dolly, futhi ngiyabonga ngomculo wonke. Uzokhunjulwa.

Nokho, kunezingcaphuno ezinhle lapha, ngakho-ke zinike isikhashana ukuze uzijabulele zonke.

Bese, sicela uwadlulise.

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Izingcaphuno ezidumile zikaDolly Parton:

  1. Abantu bathi ngibukeka ngijabule kakhulu, bese ngithi, 'Yileyo i-Botox.'
  2. Ubuthakathaka bami bekulokhu kuwukudla kanye namadoda, ngalolo hlelo.
  3. Kuhle ukuthi ngazalwa ngiyintombazane; ngaphandle kwalokho, bengizoba yindlovukazi ethanda ukuhudula.
  4. Uma ngibona into igoba, igoba noma ihudula, ngizoyihlikihla, ngiyifake noma ngiyimunce.
  5. Izinhlungu ezinkulu empilweni yami kube yingoba ngangifuna abantu bangithande ngaphezu kokuba bezimisele noma bekwazi.
  6. Ngiyambonga uNkulunkulu ngokwehluleka kwami. Mhlawumbe hhayi ngaleso sikhathi kodwa ngemva kokucabanga okuthile. Angikaze ngizizwe ngisehluleki ngenxa yokuthi into engiyizamile yehlulekile.
  7. Ngifana nentombazane yakwamakhelwane uma kwenzeka uhlala eduze kwepaki lokuzijabulisa.
  8. Lapho ngiphefumulelwe, ngiyajabula ngoba angikwazi ukulinda ukubona ukuthi yini engizoza nayo ngokulandelayo.
  9. Angiyena ubuhle bemvelo. Uma ngizoba nokubukeka, kuzomele ngikudale.
  10. Ngingase ngibe nobuciko bomzimba obuncane, kodwa angikutsheli ukuthi kuphi. (Lapho ebuzwa ukuthi unawo yini ama-tattoos)
  11. Mhlawumbe uma sengineminyaka eyi-100 futhi uzozisola ngaleso sikhathi. (Ebuzwa ukuthi uzoke abonakale enqunu)
  12. Ngangivele ngisebenza ngopulasitiki ngesikhathi iningi lalaba baculi bezwe lisafake amashidi epulasitiki.
  13. Angicasulwa yibo bonke amahlaya ablonde abayizimpumputhe ngoba ngiyazazi ukuthi angisona isimungulu, futhi ngiyazi futhi ukuthi angiyena umhlonyane.
  14. Umculo ubulokhu uyisisekelo kimi, futhi uma ngihamba, ngifuna ukufela esiteji, phakathi nengoma.
  15. Ngaba ngowokuqala wesifazane ukushisa ubhodisi wami. Kuthathe abezicishamlilo izinsuku ezine ukuyicisha.
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Sicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho:

Ingabe lezi zingcaphuno ezidumile zikaDolly Parton uzitholile zithakazelisa, mfundi othandekayo?

Wenzile? Ngithemba kanjalo noma kunjalo.

Uma kunjalo ngicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nabangani bakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngoba uma wabelana wonke umuntu uyawina.

Ngakho ngicela wabelane ngalokhu okuthunyelwe manje, ngenkathi usenethuba. Uma ungangenzela lokho ngizohlala ngibonga kakhulu. Uzobe usiza i-blogger ekhuthele ukuthi ifinyelele izethameli eziningi.

Ngiyabonga ngokweseka kwakho.

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